THE BACHELOR/ETTE
One of the things you don’t really account for when moving
to a new place, is how hard it is to make friends once you are over 30. Most
people still maintain their lifelong and college friends and don’t have a need
to meet new people (especially true for most Australians).
We joke that since we’ve been together so long that we
forget the initial dating struggles with how long to call after the first date,
whether I should call first or wait for her, etc… We now get to re-live that
uncertainty trying to make new friends. Luckily for us, Sydney is full of
ex-pats from all over the world in a similar situation.
Also luckily there is Gumtree, which is a much, MUCH less
creepier version than Craigslist. I came home from work one day and Mere
announced, much to my horror, that she had put a want ad on Craigslist to try
for friends. All I could think of was all the sketchy personal ads on
Craigslist and the whole Craigslist killer story about the kid from BU who
would look for massages on Craigslist then rob/kill the masseuse to pay off his
gambling debts - thanks internet! (I believe this is now a Lifetime movie?)
Turns out since there are only 20 million people in the entire country of
Australia, it weeds out a lot of the crazies you get back home. We’ve met a
bunch of nice people, some of which we still see regularly. We hit it off with
the first couple we met, so our expectations have been unrealistically high
since then. We did get an email response from one couple wanting to know if we
were a ‘we’re looking to grab dinner’ couple or a ‘we’re looking to shoot a
porno’ couple. You can’t weed out all of the weirdoes.
THE LIFE AQUATIC WITH MARK LAPIERRE (and Mere)
As some of you know, I joined Mere getting Scuba certified
over Australia day weekend in time for when Mere’s mom visits (in just over 1
week!) and we take a trip up to the Great Barrier Reef.
Such a cool experience breathing underwater. Mere will be
sure to bring her underwater camera to the reef to take some photos. Also,
everyone who works at the dive shop is super nice, and we regularly meet some
of them for beers on the weekends.
But the best part of getting Scuba certified is now I have a
reason to go into the Diver Jim’s store up the street from where I grew up in
Belmont! Lived close by for about 29 years and never set foot in. Cross it off
the bucket list!
YOUR MOMENT OF ZEN
Saw the below sign outside the church by our apartment.
Probably not too helpful if you are trying to learn since you can’t speak (and almost
certainly can’t read) English.
Lastly, for those back home bracing for the snowstorm (14-20
inches forecasted for Friday), good luck, stay warm and be safe. Here is a
picture of a rainbow I saw on my commute to work (sorry):